So what do you need to do to keep your man?Sometimes you may read about a celebrity couple that has been struck with infidelity and it sparks a fear and dark cloud over your own relationships.
We can all see opportunities for our partner everywhere and feel that we want to keep him home out of temptation's reach.
All relationships start off with us believing that he would never cheat on us, with our hormones dancing around in the early joys of all the excitement and interest. But as time goes on, there could be an incident such as an innocent flirt or a drunken night and next thing you know... somebody has been unfaithful.So what exactly does keep a man faithful?
The strongest one will be his own sense of morality, loyalty to you and his commitment. However, there are certain actions that you can take to keep your man wanting to play at home and not out on the road.
1. Keep the future in sight
One of the reasons that mean can stray is looking for that buzz that gives them a real kick and makes them excited to be alive. The excitement that satisfies the pleasure zone in their brain.
Once a relationship has been in situ for a while, it can lose that buzz. Keeping exciting plans on the go for the future such as holidays or vacations, an exciting activity or celebration with friends will keep that buzz going.
Keep the future in sight and him focused on what is going on, so that he has got no reason to look for his satisfaction or challenges elsewhere. He is getting his satisfaction at home. sneak around - and get their satisfaction elsewhere.
2. Plan Movies
Keep activities planned to stop the humdrum of everyday life. A survey in the US concluded that 54% of men want to spend more quality time with their wives - indicating that they want more shared experienced and less routine.
Men like to do sporting or other activities together to build their bond. Keep your man busy and entertained. Research shows that 70% of husbands say that the quality of friendship they share with their wives is what determines how happy they are with sex, romance, and passion in their marriages.
3. Send him off with the guys
I know that could make a lady feel nervous - what or more like who else will he be spending time with......?
While there will always be a danger that he could.. it can also show him that you respect the time when he isn't working for him to relax with his buddies, and that you recognise that as a male he does have a need for adventure. Not to mention that spending time apart can make a relationship stronger.
Some guys cheat if they are going through a midlife crisis and they are frightened that they don't have what it takes anymore. But a man who regularly feeds his adventurous side in little ways is less likely to go overboard with it.
4. Keep his brain activeA recent study shows that men who don't have enough action in their brain in the part that governs anticipation and planning get more easily bored. Boredom can lead to a more likely search for extra attention.
More action in that part of the brain also makes a man kinder to his woman. Help him by setting goals and sticking to them. All the more reason to do action 1.
How do you keep that part of the brain healthy? Less nicotine, less alcohol and less caffeine.
5. Pay him a compliment
Every woman craves being given positive feedback on how good she looks or how good she is in bed. Men need that too.
Some men stray over self-esteem issues. It's too low and he needs to feel better about himself. Other times (just like Tiger) his esteem is too high and he feels that he can have anybody he wants.
In a men's magazine survey, 38% of men said they rarely or never received a compliment from their partners. You don't have to keep saying them, but make sure you do say them, otherwise he could look for them elsewhere.So not a lot of things to do to keep your man satisfied in his needs and you could have fun with them too. Let me know how you get on xxx
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